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  • Fff… family

    I just read this today and loved it: http://www.literarymama.com/columns/perfectlynormal/archives/2011/ffffamily.html A great reminder that not all families look alike (which clearly we should not need reminding) and that for some people, celebrations that revolve around families are not celebrations at all.

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  • Worshipping WITH the World

    Last Sunday I was in New Orleans for a conference. As much as I love the volunteer work I do every Sunday as the primary chorister (children’s music leader, for those of you who don’t speak Mormonese), I love the 3-4 times a year that […]

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  • Surely We Were Blessed

    We were a wreck. The basses and tenors were supposed to be singing a unison line-yet I kept hearing a variety of notes, none of them correct. I’d moved two altos and myself to the tenor line. Though the range was low, the tenor line […]

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  • Paula’s Prius Ride to Church

    Today’s Ride to Church hails from Paula in Encinitas, California. ; The LDS Chapel on Lake Street in Encinitas, CA is our destination today.   Encinitas is a town of 65,000 or so, 25 miles north of downtown San Diego, on the legendary Highway 101. […]

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  • “Come to Zion”

    ‘Zion’ has become a dirty word in our world: now it is shorthand for the displacement of native peoples from their homelands, and a justification for the flexing of military power for scriptural causes. I’m not sure that when my people sing songs about ‘Zion’ […]

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  • Natural Coastline Ecosystems

    This is a photo I took on a short (half a day) trip to the beach over Spring Break.   Behind me is the Atlantic Ocean.   I was in Florida visiting my parents and we took a detour home via Hanna Park in Atlantic […]

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  • Before Sunset

    For Jesse and Céline these questions are embodied in a single night and in each other. But the question of how we balance our passion, our need to continue living fully with the realities of daily living can come to us in many guises.

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  • Helping an Orphanage in Ethiopia

    One of my dearest and oldest friends (one of two friends without whom I would not have survived high school) and her husband are adopting two babies from Ethiopia. She recently sent me this email that I am sharing here: ; Hi Friends and Family– […]

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  • Find Your Tribe

    Over a decade ago I read this article in Mothering Magazine about a woman who is far from family and friends and meets up with another woman to share household projects and childcare over the course of a day several times a week, alternating households. […]

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  • Bayou Courtableau, Louisiana

    Alina Taylor writes: These images were taken on Bayou Courtableau in St Landry Parish, Louisiana near Port Barre right off 190. It is a town steeped in Louisiana bayou charm where Cajun French meets English to create a language known to the locals and seems […]

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  • Mormon Matters Podcast 27: Mormons and their Leaders

    I really enjoyed getting to be a part of this dialogue with Joanna Brooks, Dan Wotherspoon, and Charles Randall Paul regarding the way Mormons regard our church leaders. It gave me a lot to think about. Come take a listen and weigh in on the […]

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  • The Grass is Always Greener

    I just got back from a fancy schmantzy conference for educational researchers in New Orleans. I submit proposals every year and hope to get one in-even though I know I’m out of my league. Whenever I’m lucky enough to get to go, I experience an […]

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  • MM 23: The KJV and Changes to Race-Related Book of Mormon Chapter Headings

    I spent 15 hours driving this weekend and so had a lot of listening time.   I enjoyed this Mormon Matters podcast–especially after reading Ed’s post here about his first Bible: Episode 23: The King James Version and Changes to Race-related Book of Mormon Chapter […]

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  • Just Too Good to be True

    Context can be everything in art. Hearing those songs again, in a fresh context, I was actually listening to them for the first time.

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  • Salvador, Brazil

    I gotta love Facebook because it allowed me to re-connect with Kim Allen, who was my roommate while I was on study abroad in Spain.   Kim is a great photographer and agreed to let me share these pics that she took in Salvador, Brazil. […]

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  • Cafeteria Style

    In last week’s LDS General Conference session. Elder Nelson, a prominent priesthood leader, said,“ Teach of faith to keep all the commandments of God, knowing that they are given to bless His children and bring them joy. Warn them that they will encounter people who […]

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  • Sterling’s Taiwanese Ride to Church

    Today’s Ride to Church comes to us from Sterling Swallow–all the way from Taiwan. Sterling writes: Taoyuan, Taiwan is not only the site of three LDS wards, but it’s also the actual home of the Chiang Kai Shek/Taipei International Airport.  It is just south of […]

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  • Time’s Fractal Line

    ‘I wish I had more time in my life.’ A friend wrote this on his Facebook wall yesterday. It’s a problem I can certainly relate to: I often feel the sands of time slipping through some cosmic hourglass, with too few of the things I […]

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  • Before Sunrise

    An American man meets a French woman on a train in Europe. They connect and get off together in Vienna where they spend the night walking around the city and talking, making love hours before each is scheduled to depart for home. With that framework, […]

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  • Delousing the Kids

    This beautiful poem was written by my dear friend, Dayna Patterson, after patiently listening to me whine about our 2010 lice-capade.   It will be published later this year in a chapbook called Mothering.   Dayna has another chapbook that was published recently called Loose […]

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  • An Unlikely Prayer of Thanksgiving

    Last summer, Brent and Stuart went to get a haircut. While there, the stylist discovered that Stuart had lice (gasp!). We soon discovered that Marin also had it (double gasp!). Kennedy managed to escape unscathed. From my perspective growing up, it seemed like the only […]

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  • Bicycle Playlist

    "Bicycles move with the flow of the earth ..."

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  • Cleared for Take Off

    “Does anyone smell smoke?” Not exactly the words you want to hear at 36,000 feet in the air halfway through a cross-country flight. Shortly after the flight attendant asked us to take our shoes off to feel for heat (read: fire) below us, our plane […]

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  • James’ Bike Ride to Church in Suffolk and Essex

    Come see James’ bike ride to his favourite church just outside Suffolk, England, where James grew up and now works as a primary school teacher. This is not the Quaker church that James attends most Sundays, but a small village church that sits atop a […]

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  • Reach Out and Touch Someone

    He blazed up the wide middle aisle of our repurposed Presbyterian sanctuary, passing the stained glass depictions of Biblical scenes on his way to the pulpit to speak at the open mic of our LDS fast and testimony meeting. He looked a bit like Samson, […]

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  • The West

    Yesterday on ‘Rogue Cinema’ I wrote about one of my Granddad’s favourite films, the 1955 version of Oklahoma!, and pondered how this representation of the American West appealed to his personal psychology. He was a man with an abundance of energy, who loved amateur dramatics, […]

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  • Boise Trees

    DaLyn took these beautiful pictures in or around Boise, Idaho.   Thanks for sharing them with us, DaLyn. ;

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  • Oklahoma!

    The first part of a two-post analysis of the dream of the American West, through a particularly successful 1955 movie adaptation of the Broadway hit. Six years ago, my paternal grandfather, Dennis, died of Motor Neurone (Lou Gehrig's) disease.

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  • Glastonbury Tor

    When we lived in Bristol, we went a few times to the nearby and ancient town of Glastonbury, where, on top of a sharp and very prominent hill, a strange-looking tower stands alone. A mythology surrounds the ‘Tor’, and the whole town, connecting unseen worlds […]

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  • Woman can’t close eyes due to plastic surgery

    I just read this sad article about a woman who can no longer close her eyes due to a plastic surgery procedure.   And if you’ve been reading here this week, you’ll know that I have plastic surgery on the brain. And while I *know* […]

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  • Kids and Calamities

    I watched the Twin Towers fall on TV, my oldest child safely ensconced in her kindergarten class.   My toddler was playing with blocks nearby…. building towers and knocking them down.   “Mommy, why does your face look like this?”   she asked, mimicking my […]

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  • More college “hookups” but more virgins

    I just read this article re: the sexual behavior of college students. This article reports on research done by Mark Regnerus, who wrote Forbidden Fruit that I wrote about several times a month or so ago.   And it made me chuckle because at BYU […]

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  • Fancy

    The willingness to spend tons of money and time grooming or getting surgery is born of a desire to control outcomes, to dictate the potentially unpredictable vicissitudes of desire and power associated with beauty in our culture.

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  • I’m Not Fancy

    ; “At fifty, every man has the face he deserves.   To erase the lines and change the contours of one’s face is a way of obliterating one’s history.” –George Orwell ; When Kennedy was about 9, I started a mother/daughter book club. At the […]

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  • An interview with Bobby Lopez, co-creator of the Book of Mormon musical

    I thought this was a great interview.   I loved it when he said he liked the Mormon practice of having weekly “Family Home Evening” and hoped his kids were having “as good a time as Mormon kids.”   It’s funny to me that Mormons […]

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  • Pay to Pray: Going Green for God

    The flickering of the candles drew me in as if they were the wish at end of a birthday celebration. . . when I found out that money was tied to offering these prayers, I felt a bit angry and self righteous. At MY church you could pray for free, God didn't "charge" to hear your pleas.

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  • As is the atom, so is the universe…

    Part 1: My poor kids have a Yogi-Buddhist-Pacifist (and Christian leaning) Mom. This does not bode well if you are a 15-year old boy who loves video games. Have you ever tried to find non-violent video games for your kids? There are not a lot […]

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  • Let’s Walk Together

    It’s easy to be unconscious about our consciousness. The stories that we tell ourselves make up our world, but it’s natural to be unaware of the huge potential power that lies in exploring and examining the processes that form these stories. ‘Life is what you […]

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  • My Oldest Possession

    Forty years ago today I received a gift, an item I've owned longer, and used more often, than any other possession

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  • Rural Washington

    This beautiful picture is a shot of the view Brent (married to Doves-and-Serpents-Heather) woke up to every morning growing up in rural Washington state. The picture was taken by Brent’s sister.   On a clear day, you can also see Mt. St. Helens from their […]

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  • Parallel Journeys

    By Claudia On my personal blog, I am known as “The Faithful Dissident.” For the past three years, I’ve been hiding behind that alias. Afraid of what, I’m not exactly sure, but some of my experiences during the past yearhave made me realize that I’m […]

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  • My Own (not-so-little-anymore) Dancing Boy

    My son Stuart turned 8 in February and was baptized as a member of our church last Sunday.   (Children typically get baptized when they turn 8 in the Mormon church, so he has been looking forward this. It’s something of a rite of passage.) […]

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  • Magnolia

    Paul Thomas Anderson’s Magnolia (1999) shows us (to use David Lynch’s words:) people ‘in trouble’. Like Altman’s Short Cuts, the film revolves around the strangely interconnected lives of a number of families in the city, each trying to navigate crises that seem to be veering […]

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  • “I Believe” – a Review of “The Book of Mormon” Musical

    And mostly I felt sadness that it takes people completely outside of my faith to see where the power of Mormonism lies.

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  • Jonathan’s Ride to Church(es) in Salt Lake City

    I was inspired by Andy’s post of churches around York several weeks back and decided to give it a shot where I live here in the Salt Lake area.   I had visited some of the churches in the area before, and decided to use […]

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  • Belly Aches

    Nearly a year ago, I was distressed to realize that I desperately wanted to be somewhere else, doing something else. I wanted to  be someone else. Felt burnt out at work. Phoned it in with my family and wondered if I would ever enjoy them […]

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  • Kevin Smith: ‘Dogma’

    When Dogma (1999) was first released, it was met with all the usual protestors: the Harry-Potter-book-burners, who hadn’t bothered to see the film. From a copy of the script, the Catholic League were left with no doubt that this was a ‘blasphemous’ film: casting Alanis […]

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  • “Do you want to end up living under a bridge?”

    This is, reportedly, what my daughter’s second grade teacher asked her class during a fit of frustration over their less-than-enthusiastic preparation for the looming standardized testing.   Several other parents and I were concerned, but felt trapped in the status quo and didn’t really see […]

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  • The Incredible Shrinking Woman

    I never thought too much about whether I’d be a mother (see this post if you’d like). I thought about becoming a mother about as much as I think about breathing or blinking. So after I got married (at the absurd age of 19), the […]

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  • Return and Report

    Welcome to a new segment on Stacks where I give brief reports on what I’ve been reading or listening to lately. Today’s edition will feature four novels I’ve read in the last month, including one that was on my to do list for this year. […]

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  • Mormon Mommy Meets Eat, Pray, Love

    In the spirit of wayfaring, Ashley joins us today with the kind of travelogue I’d love to hear in testimony meeting.  I’m the one with my mouth open wide and feet sitting in a pool of flesh-sucking fish, what Southeast Asians term a “fish spa.” […]

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  • The Rituals of Sin

    Today on ‘The Sanctuary’ we’re very pleased to have a guest post from Krisanne, who writes at the Mormon Women Project, as well as  A Paper Moth and Bottari. A couple of days ago I watched Searching for the Wrong-Eyed Jesus, a documentary about an […]

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  • DRY Ink’s Ride to Church

    Come see Erika’s drive to church in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.   Erika is a licensed therapist and photographer.   Click here to see her amazing work. Erika says: “I live in Baton Rouge, LA. Like any town we have our pluses and minuses. Pluses: rich […]

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  • The Big Lebowski

    ‘Sometimes there’s a man. . . and he’s the man for his time and place.’ The Big Lebowski (1998)  is a film about a man who ‘nobody calls. . . Lebowski.’ He is ‘The Dude’ (Jeff Bridges): and his journey to secure a replacement rug […]

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  • Talents: Addition and Multiplication

    This is a guest post from a favorite reader and commenter, Corktree. It may sound simplistic (or just serving of my purpose), but I’ve always read the parable of the talents to mean actual talents.   It’s just easy to see how one might be […]

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  • Bee Photography

    Check out this amazing picture taken by D’Arcy Benincosa of Bee Photography.   This is one of her favorite shots: ;

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  • I’m a Public School Junkie

      I’m a public school junkie and since this is Texas Public Schools Week (who knew?), I’m hopping up on my Public Schools Soapbox.   My three siblings and I are all products of Texas public schools, which served us remarkably well-academically and socially.   […]

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  • To The Greatest Boy in the World — A Tribute

    My boy, my oldest, is turning nine tomorrow. He is still young, but in the last six months, there have been these strange flickers of the future, a shadow of the young man he will become running through him. There are wry asides, hair that […]

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  • Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers

    We can blame it all on Ben Franklin. Starting the trend for using artistic satire to editorialize, his “Join, or Die” cartoon was the first of its kind to be published. Depicting the original American colonies as pieces of a snake, he attempts to illustrate […]

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  • Before I Die . . . in NOLA

    This is one of the coolest things I have seen in a long time.   Candy Chan is a public installation artist, designer, urban planner, and co-founder of Civic Center who likes to make cities more comfortable for people.   With some help from friends, […]

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