love Archive

  • Pantsgate 2012: There Is Room Enough for All of Us

    There is room enough in Christ for all of us.

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  • 32 Psaltery & Lyre: Dayna Patterson, “Soft”

    "The doctrine is an egg / in its shell / I can't swallow / God . . . "

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  • 29 Psaltery & Lyre: Alex Wiggins, “Cleaning our keyboard”

    "It's weird how we erode. / In the valleys, shed pieces of me / fell from busy fingertips and mingled / with cracker crumbs, bacon bits, / stranded grains of rice . . . "

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  • Choosing Faith in the Face of Doubt

    The truth is that some things will hurt and be difficult. The truth is that some questions will never be fully resolved. Part of a mature faith is accepting the inherent ambiguity of life and acting in accordance with our deepest hopes anyway.

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    Unyielding: It’s How We Operate

    During my ex-boyfriend’s honeymoon, I sent him a dozen red roses, along with three singing telegrams, which I had delivered three days in a row. The girl paid to sing to my ex was yelled at by his new wife, who was angry at the […]

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  • The Pillars of Love, Part 1: Authenticity

    To be pure, love must be authentic. This is much more than saying that love must be authentically felt. What I mean is that pure love must come from a heart that is stripped of deceit, for love cannot survive otherwise.

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  • 39 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Please Don’t Tell Me I Don’t Understand the Gospel

    Had I simply refused to see it? Turned a blind eye out of conformity? Why, after decades in the church, did these things suddenly bother me?

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  • The Hallelujah Chorus

    Let’s just get the Shrek connection out of the way. The strange inclusion of the song “Hallelujah” in the enormously successful 2001 animated film (that launched a million sequels) helped put Leonard Cohen’s enormously influential but not yet incredibly well known composition on the popular […]

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  • Dog Heaven

    . You know how we all imagine that 'dog heaven' will be a place where dogs get to do what dogs like, like ride in cars with their heads hanging out the window or run through meadows chasing balls and sticks? Somehow, 'Mormon heaven' has never sounded like 'Claire heaven' to me.

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  • Santa and I

    The year I turned four or five, we drove to my grandparents in central Wisconsin for Christmas.   Actually, we did this for most years of my early childhood- until I was 8 or so and we moved to Florida.   Making the 1100 mile […]

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  • 08 Dear Jack: Nourishing the Delusion

    Dear Jack, I believe that one of the greatest gifts God has given us is our capacity to think for ourselves. If I do my best to understand a particular issue, and then honestly and openly seek His inspiration, and I reach a conclusion that […]

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  • My Own Personal Canon: Southern-fried Love

    In Paul’s 2nd epistle to Timothy,  chapter 3, verses 14-17, we read this ringing endorsement of inspired writings: But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and has been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child […]

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  • Going to the Dogs

    The following piece is a guest submission by Claudia Ruptier ; Ron liked dogs.   He just didn’t want one-even after he’d been diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment with likely progression to dementia. I was thinking of a service dog to help care for my […]

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  • Favorites: Business Lunch

    I asked a group with an empty chair if I could sit with them. A young man's smile put me at ease and I settled in for lunch. I wasn't sure what to say, but I needn't have worried.

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  • Finding Peace

    Finding Peace

    Forgiveness.   As babies and young children, we can’t help but forgive those that wrong us.   We have no choice…. we are too dependent.   But somehow along the path to adulthood (and independence) we lose that.   Maybe rightly so- I think there […]

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  • The Wish Tree

    I had my five year old daughter with me and I was a bit disappointed that I couldn't get her very interested in the bronzes. Then we turned the corner and beheld the Wish Tree.

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  • Book Lover

    I’m not afraid to admit it. I have a problem. I’m addicted to books. I thought I had kept it hidden for many years, but when my wife finally catches me looking at the most recent Library of America catalogue with lust in my eyes, […]

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  • Window to Utopia

    What would heaven be like, for a teenager?

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  • Husband and Wife Book Club: The Road

    Read The Road only if you can handle the bittersweetness of life. Read The Road only if you can bear to carry the torch.

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  • We Are Pioneers

    As I was telling my Kindergartner earlier this month that we're all pioneers in some way. Whenever we stand up for what we believe in or do something because we know inside it's a good thing to do, we are pioneers.

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  • I Love the Smell of K-Y Warming Jelly ® in the Morning, or, Marital Apocalypse Delayed

    Although best known for “The Seventh Seal” and other serious “art house” films, I suggest Ingmar Bergman’s best work is his delightful “Smiles of a Summer Night.” Whether you watch it as a momentary diversion from a sweltering evening this summer or view it as […]

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  • Angels with Power Tools

    When you hear the words “Compassionate Service” what comes to mind?   This is like one of those word association games- just go with your gut feeling.   Macaroni and cheese?   Sign up sheets?   Relief Society Board Meeting? A calling you hated (or […]

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  • “Come to Zion”

    ‘Zion’ has become a dirty word in our world: now it is shorthand for the displacement of native peoples from their homelands, and a justification for the flexing of military power for scriptural causes. I’m not sure that when my people sing songs about ‘Zion’ […]

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  • Before Sunset

    For Jesse and Céline these questions are embodied in a single night and in each other. But the question of how we balance our passion, our need to continue living fully with the realities of daily living can come to us in many guises.

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  • Before Sunrise

    An American man meets a French woman on a train in Europe. They connect and get off together in Vienna where they spend the night walking around the city and talking, making love hours before each is scheduled to depart for home. With that framework, […]

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  • Parallel Journeys

    By Claudia On my personal blog, I am known as “The Faithful Dissident.” For the past three years, I’ve been hiding behind that alias. Afraid of what, I’m not exactly sure, but some of my experiences during the past yearhave made me realize that I’m […]

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  • Magnolia

    Paul Thomas Anderson’s Magnolia (1999) shows us (to use David Lynch’s words:) people ‘in trouble’. Like Altman’s Short Cuts, the film revolves around the strangely interconnected lives of a number of families in the city, each trying to navigate crises that seem to be veering […]

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  • Talents: Addition and Multiplication

    This is a guest post from a favorite reader and commenter, Corktree. It may sound simplistic (or just serving of my purpose), but I’ve always read the parable of the talents to mean actual talents.   It’s just easy to see how one might be […]

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  • The Fountain

    How much recompense can mythology -- or even the scientific comforts of persistence of the body -- provide in the face of human yearning?

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  • Celebrating the Man As Well As His Cause

    A guest post from a reader, Debra. Names matter. They do. My life experience has taught me this. Names are important as they are references — signs – that direct us to meaning, and often to a particular point in time – in history. In […]

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  • Antonio Canova - Amore e Psiche

    Valentine Crush

    Valentine’s Day is for amore and what more perfectly embodies amore than a crush? Our friend Course Correction channels the sweet innocence and lasting, life-altering experience of that crushing moment. Happy Valentine’s Day to you too, CC. [Image credit: Antonio Canova – Amore e Psiche. […]

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  • Playing Valentine

    Legend has it that one of the roots of Valentine’s Day stem from a third century ban on marriage passed by Roman emperor Claudius II who thought married men made poor soldiers. A priest named Valentine continued the marriage tradition by marrying couples in secret, […]

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  • Bearing a Burden

    It sounds corny, but by carrying around her belongings (two pairs of sturdy shoes, a box of office supplies, a blanket, and a black garbage bag full of what I assume was clothing) I felt like I was literally bearing her burden, whoever she was.

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    The Golden Rule

    [UPDATED] I am bound and cannot escape. I live in shadows and mists along the edges of that magical world of my childhood; a realm where all of humanity is enslaved by unhappiness and fear of certain destruction ... unless ...

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  • Sassetta: St Antony beaten by the devils

    Scapegoats

    "Don't blame it all on the devil" seems a reasonable enough point for mature minds. Maybe too obvious a point? It's tempting to take all of this at face value and assume that Defoe's meaning is simple, but I'd like to suggest something further ...

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  • Enough is enough

    Wherefore do ye spend money for [that which is] not bread? and your labour for [that which] satisfieth not? hearken diligently unto me, and eat ye [that which is] good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.

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  • 15 Favorite …

    Personally, I'm a sucker for these lists. I seem to be constitutionally incapable of resisting them, even though they're hardly ever revelatory.

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    Forgotten

    Light of my life, fire of my loins. My sin, my soul laments Humbert Humbert. The recollection of Lolita draws Nabokov’s unreliable narrator far back in time as the middle-aged man, now grown old with memories, paints a portrait that pleads for pity and argues […]

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