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  • But With Joy Wend Your Way

    Few hymns seem to capture the Mormon spirit so completely or at ts best. The steady beginning building to the gorgeous swell of music and lyrics work together to convey the sense of joy and faith that Clayton wrote about, the beauty of life in spite of difficulties and hardship.

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  • Mormon Matters 43: Healthy Approaches to Teaching Modesty

    Last week I participated in this Mormon Matters podcast regarding modesty and Mormonism with Dan Wotherspoon, Chelsea Robarge Fife, and Erin Hill. The impetus behind the podcast (for me, anyway) was the silly article in The Friend that I wrote about in this post: Modesty, […]

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  • Trekkie

    Those who weren't too busy, too judgmental, too self absorbed and too self-important to drop everything to help someone else are worthy of reenactment and emulation.

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  • O Pioneers!

    One year we had a brown horse in the church parking lot. Bonnet-wearing girls and cowboy-hatted boys took turns “riding” him around the building. Another year, I helped organize a stake-wide celebration with all the bells and whistles. Well, no actual bells and whistles, but […]

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  • Trek

    Mormons all over the U.S. (and elsewhere, perhaps) gathered yesterday to celebrate Pioneer Day–commemorating the entry of   Brigham Young and the first group of Mormon pioneers into the Salt Lake Valley on July 24, 1847. Our ward (= congregation) had a picnic and potluck […]

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  • A Mormon/Muslim wedding

    I loved this article by Elna Baker, author of The New York Regional Mormon Singles Halloween Dance. It was published in O magazine in July 2011. A Mormon and a Muslim walk into a wedding . . . Have you been to a cross-cultural wedding?

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  • 04 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Build Out, Not Up

    Can a religion be built on faith? Just plain faith? Faith that isn't looking for a promotion, or a pay raise, or that isn't on its way to becoming something else?

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  • Eat, Bray, Shove: Two Men’s Mimicry, Mockery and Mastication Across Northern England

    What would you get if the producers of “Curb Your Enthusiasm” combined “My Dinner with Andre ” and “Easy Rider” with some salacious food porn thrown in? Why, you’d have British director Michael Winterbottom’s latest Steve Coogan  and Rob Brydon semi-improvised vehicle, “The Trip,” that’s […]

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  • The Gluttonous Baby

    For as long as humans have made objects, there have been baby dolls.   It’s an almost universal phenomenon that young children   play with dolls.   Especially if they have younger siblings or see babies being taken care of in their daily life, little […]

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  • I, Heather Kathleen Olson Beal, Being of Sound Mind and Body

    A few months ago, Brent and I finally managed to complete a task that has been on our to-do list for-gulp-14.5 years. We had a will drawn up (and other sad-ish documents like a power of attorney, a living will, etc.). Why 14.5 years? Our […]

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  • Return and Report: The Murakami Edition

    Four novels later, I find myself firmly in the critical admirers' camp.

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  • Austin Eateries: We Are What We Eat (?)

    It’s really cheating for me to write anything for The Wayfarer because I’m a big fan of my comfort zone and try not to leave it too much. And my “comfort zone” is particularly small when it comes to food. However, our oldest daughter (Kennedy) […]

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  • Claudia’s Ride to Church in Moelv, Norway

    Today’s Ride to Church comes to us all the way from Claudia (Faithful Dissident) in Moelv, Norway.   Claudia writes: Almost nine years ago, I moved to Moelv, Norway.   This town is located in the heart of Norway’s breadbasket of Ringsaker commune.   A […]

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  • Great Expectations

    In 2006, Elder Nelson spoke of his first wife saying, “When people have asked her how she managed with ten children with so little time available from her husband, she has responded with a twinkle in her eye, saying, “When I married him, I didn’t […]

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  • Tree of Life

    03 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: From Kolob Wikileaks

    "The iron rod should only go halfway through the mist-just HALFWAY, not all the way. It's clear from the picture."

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  • Operation Stop Arm

    My neighbor Sheri and I watched motorists pass our children's school bus for years. We took video, called the police, reported tag numbers, complained to the public school department of transportation, pleaded with the PTA for attention to this matter. We were met with "there is nothing we can do" around every single corner.

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  • Modesty, Mormon-style

    We try not to rant here at Doves & Serpents. We try to discuss things we’re thinking about, exchange ideas, and ask questions. But I was pushed over the edge today when I read this little gem published in The Friend (a monthly magazine for […]

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  • How You Can Keep Your Head Down and Pass as a Mormon While Living in Utah

    ; ; See this list from the Hairpin.

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  • Staff Stacks

    What the writers of D&S are into right now.

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  • Earthy Soulful Awakening

    I grew up road-tripping to my dad’s favorites: Johnny Cash, Trio: Linda Rondstadt, Emmylou Harris & Dolly Parton, and AM sports radio mixed with a lot of static. So it’s no wonder I’ve been smitten by The Avett Brothers and Mumford & Sons. Though each […]

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  • Healing Waters

    “You’ll only be baptized once in your life, so it is a very special experience,” my grandmother said, speaking at my eight year old daughter’s baptism last week. After her talk concluded, we made our way down the hallway to the baptismal font and while […]

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  • Walk to Church/Synagogue in Krakow

    Today’s Walk to Church/Synagogue comes to us from Jacob Baker, who recently attended a conference in Krakow, Poland. This is sort of cheating because Jacob didn’t really take these pictures for Doves & Serpents, but kindly consented to let me use them after I Facebook-stalked […]

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  • 02 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Our God is Too Small

    The problem is that our assumption of order and constancy doesn't match the diversity, incoherence, and contradictions of lived religion.

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  • Considering James Bond in a Post-Mad Men World

    You, the audience, look through the barrel of an assassin’s rifle at a circular white space as a smartly dressed gentleman strides into view and then he suddenly whirls toward you, his now unconcealed pistol firing.   A crimson wash of blood slowly coats the […]

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  • Needing it Now and the Eye of the Storm

    As I watched from my TV with a newborn baby, I was physically ill at the sight of those not able to escape New Orleans as the ravaging effects of Hurricane Katrina flooded their city and threatened their lives. The city was special to me, […]

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  • Passing up Girls’ Night Out

    I consider myself a friendly, outgoing person. I had a great group of girls I was friends with in high school. I like to think people find me easy to talk to and easy to get to know. I can easily kill a half hour […]

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  • Rasputin Records

    My husband and I both enjoy a really broad range of musical genres. As such, I’ve often wondered — how will our kids find a way to fulfill the role of the rebellious teenager at our house when we as parents seem to appreciate most […]

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  • A View into Tiny Worlds

    A couple of years ago I acquired a macro lens for my camera, and had all sorts of fun working out the fuzzy science of getting photos of the tiniest things possible. Once you get down to this scale, everything looks dirty and rough – […]

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  • Independence Day

    Becoming a citizen was a long, expensive process for my husband. I can't imagine how difficult it was for those people from Burkina Faso, Serbia, Jamaica, Colombia, Cambodia that we shared that day with at the immigration office.

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  • Erin’s Ride to a 10-Day Silent Vipassana Course

    Our beloved Erin just wrapped up a 10-day silent vipassana meditation retreat, or as some people call it, “meditation boot camp.” Hopefully she’ll tell us more about it here later. For now, some pictures of her ride to the retreat center in Dallas:

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  • This Wild Playground

    This week I found myself hanging upside-down from aerial silks in an artist’s studio in Oakland, when the blasphemous words came out of my mouth, “I can’t!” I found new levels of humility while failing to find muscles I knew I had somewhere, and trying […]

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  • 01 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: On Being a Church Loser

    If my religion were a sports stadium, then I'm in the nosebleed section. I've got a big Diet Coke, a bucket of popcorn, and the field is the size of a postage stamp.

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  • Beautiful!

    Check out this beautiful photo blog entry: (Click the photo to read.)

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  • Winter’s Bone

    Among its confluence of forces and traditions, it is impossible to ignore that the mythological potential of America is enabled, at least in part, by its sheer size. As the borders of the United States pushed relentlessly West, spaces opened up in the endless flats […]

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  • Joining the Jesus Freaks

    Do we believe, deep down, that the poor are that way because God wants them to be?

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  • The Evil One

    Does reading make you a better person?

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  • The Great I AM

    Stopped at a light one Saturday morning, I met some teenage girls and their mothers with buckets requesting money to send the girls to basketball championships. My first reaction was annoyance, but I decided if they needed it enough to ask, I could definitely spare […]

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  • JaneAnne’s Ride to Church in Portland

    Today’s Ride to Church comes to us from the West Coast–Portland, Oregon. JaneAnne writes: “I live in Willamette Heights, Northwest Portland, Oregon, and attend church in Beaverton. Although I mostly grew up in Salem, Oregon, my family lived in Beaverton when I was a small […]

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  • Patriarchs I Have Known and Loved

    My father grew up in a troubled home, poor as coal dust. A child of the depression and of divorce, he lined his broken-soled shoes with newsprint. As a child, he learned to hustle, earning nickels at the ballpark any night he could. There was […]

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  • Joseph Smith and the Archetypes of the Collectively Unconscious Male

    In their 1990 publication, King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine, Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette suggested during the apex of the “men’s movement” that males should listen to the wisdom of the ages in searching for mature expressions of modern […]

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  • Men On Film

    As part of this week’s discussion on “Mature Masculinity,” I thought I’d take a closer look at films and television shows that depict men grappling with questions of identity and what it means to be a man in the modern world. As we’ve discussed this […]

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  • Proxy Work

    As a lone-parent, five-child family on welfare, we were hardly the ideal Mormon family.

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  • ‘Men’ in the Dock

    This is a post about men. This is a post about women. No wait, this is a post about ‘men’. This is a post about the relationships between women and men, ‘men’ and ‘women’: in a time of war. Of course, the work of feminism […]

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  • Atticus Finch: Fatherhood Gold Standard

    For years, I’ve cited To Kill a Mockingbird as my favorite book whenever asked. But I’ve read a lot of books since I first read that book in ninth grade English class. So thanks to a book club I’m a part of, I re-read it […]

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  • Burying the Weapons

    When I became a mother I was certain my children would grow up enlightened. And for me enlightenment meant my children would not ascribe to any traditional gender stereotypes or roles. My girls would play sports and revile Barbie. My boys would wear bow ties […]

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  • 3,218 Nights of Bedtime Stories

    I stumbled across this sweet article about a dad who read to his daughter for 3,218 nights in a row. And now that the daughter is grown and gone, the dad reads picture books to senior citizens every Friday. Of course I want to read […]

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  • A Most Important Proclamation

    When I was about six years old, my Dad walked me to primary class. We passed a man in the ward who nodded at the baby girl in my dad’s arms and said, “Wow. Four girls. I guess you’ll be going for baby number five […]

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  • Heidi & Torben’s Ride to Church in Long Melford, England

    Today’s ride to church comes to Doves & Serpents from our beloved Heidi, who writes Stacks for us every Tuesday, and her brother Torben. ; This is the parish church in  the nearby  village of Long Melford. I pass it every day and I’ve been […]

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  • Welcome to ‘Mature Masculinity Week’

    Grr! Hmph! (Flex!) It’s Father’s Day, and that means that the next seven days on D&S will be dedicated to that strange cultural elaboration on the XY chromosome: it’s ‘Mature Masculinity Week’! “‘Mature’ masculinity?” I hear you cry! “Isn’t masculinity, by definition, more mature than […]

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  • Stories and Stone

    Having arrived in London last week on an ordinary mid-week mid-morning, I exited the lofty frame of St Pancras International Station, onto Pentonville Road. Consulting the compass on my phone, I walked West first, the great art galleries near Trafalgar Square as my destination. The […]

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  • WikiLeaks: Newest Edition of the Book of Mormon

    Trevor Price was kind enough to share this leaked picture of the newest edition of the Book of Mormon. Can’t wait to get my copy!

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  • No Soup For You!

    I recently read this article in the Orlando Sentinel reporting on a third round of arrests of activists arrested for violating an ordinance prohibiting the sharing of food with large groups in a city park more than twice a year.   The group Food Not […]

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  • Mirror, Mirror, on the wall . . .

    My 14-year-old daughter recently said, “Mom, do you realize how many of your sentences begin with, ‘I just finished reading a book . . .’?” I paused for a moment, thinking about her question, and then realized-somewhat sheepishly-that she was right. So, in order to […]

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  • Staff Stacks

    Take a look at what we're into right now.

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  • God is not Christian

    I can’t wait to read Desmond Tutu’s newest book, God is not Christian.   I read his book Made for Goodness and found that it contained so much wisdom and light and truth. If the book is anywhere near as good as this excerpt, it […]

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  • Fear Factor

    I am terrified right now. In fact, I literally just sent a text to a friend that read, “I am terrified.” You see, this week, I set off for a ten-day silent meditation course. When it’s all said and done, I’ll be there for at […]

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  • Be Ye Therefore Perfect

    26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. — Michael Jordan In one of the best Relief Society lessons I’ve heard, the teacher […]

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  • Battles – ‘Gloss Drop’ Tour, London

    From the packed-in floor of a dark club (under Victorian railway tracks), and through the dancing columns of sound and light, the three members of Battles appear as conjurors, athletes, inventors, and heroes. Playing mostly material from their brand-new album (released this week) ‘Gloss Drop‘, […]

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  • I Love the Smell of K-Y Warming Jelly ® in the Morning, or, Marital Apocalypse Delayed

    Although best known for “The Seventh Seal” and other serious “art house” films, I suggest Ingmar Bergman’s best work is his delightful “Smiles of a Summer Night.” Whether you watch it as a momentary diversion from a sweltering evening this summer or view it as […]

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  • The Parable of the Potato Soup

    Once upon a time, a woman in our ward (=church congregation) had a baby. In typical fashion, the women at church mobilized and quickly sent around a list for people to sign up to take a meal over to her family. Kennedy was very excited […]

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