modesty Archive

  • Modesty for Men

    The ward modesty committees determined, however, that these inconveniences were worth it if they helped the women of the ward maintain virtuous thoughts.

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  • The Pharisee Within

    Today, I gave a talk in church about the last week of Jesus’ life. In the course of my talk prep, I was struck by the multiple warnings and chidings Jesus gave in his final days concerning the Pharisees, that sect of Judaism that focused […]

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  • Grondahl 29

    This one’s for Heather. :)For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • This is Nutters

    [This is me sighing.]   I’ve written a few times here about modesty.   Some might think I sound like a broken record.   There is some truth to that claim.   However, in self-defense, I have two daughters (ages 15.5 and 12) and I […]

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  • Mormon RUMPspringa: When Mormons Go Worldly

    In light of the silly controversy that occurred last week at BYU-Idaho wherein a female student was denied access to the testing center for wearing skinny jeans, we thought it would be fun and funny to create a place where we could post pictures of […]

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  • 06 Dear Jack: The Weight of the World

    Dear Jack, Our ward primary program is coming up and my six-year-old daughter wants to wear her favorite “fluffy” dress to this special occasion. The dress is white and red with ribbons and tulle … and it’s also sleeveless. I’ve gotten weird looks before when […]

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  • 11 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: How Do You Solve a Problem Like Modesty? (Guest)

    [This week we pass the microphone to Heidi, a fellow cheap-seater.   Heidi, it’s all yours. . .] Like many cheap-seaters and feminists, I’m not a fan of the modesty discourse at church. There have already been many great  conversations about what’s wrong with four-year-olds […]

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  • Modesty, Mormon-style

    We try not to rant here at Doves & Serpents. We try to discuss things we’re thinking about, exchange ideas, and ask questions. But I was pushed over the edge today when I read this little gem published in The Friend (a monthly magazine for […]

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  • What do a burger, a rare steak, and a gift all have in common?

    A couple years ago, I sat in a Relief Society lesson at church about modesty. According to the rumor mill, this lesson was necessitated by the fact that some women in our congregation were dressing immodestly, a most unfortunate reality that was making it difficult […]

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