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  • Don’t You Want Muffins?

    I was born with a seemingly infinite number of machine parts in my head — springs and sprockets and gears and levers and wires and nuts and bolts. They were mostly unassembled at birth — just random parts jangling around as I rolled and crawled […]

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  • Driver’s Ed

    Our oldest daughter is approaching the magical age of 16.   When I was her age, I took a semester-long course at school during which we learned all the rules and even practiced driving.   If that were still an option, I would’ve signed up […]

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  • 40 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: “A Public Meeting, or Feast”

    Brigham Young later removed this passage. A combined wedding and sealing, apparently, had certain operational advantages when it came to keeping early polygamous marriages a secret.

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  • Choosing Faith in the Face of Doubt

    The truth is that some things will hurt and be difficult. The truth is that some questions will never be fully resolved. Part of a mature faith is accepting the inherent ambiguity of life and acting in accordance with our deepest hopes anyway.

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  • Ride to Holy Places in Sarnath and Varnasi, India

    Today’s amazing Ride to Church comes to us from Angela Clayton and Ken Clayton (who took the stunning pictures).     Angie writes: “Varanasi is considered a holy city by Hindus (as immortalized in the movie “Gandhi”), but it is also holy to Buddhists and […]

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  • Richard Dawkins, you’re an ass. Brandon Flowers, you don’t know what the hell you’re talking about.

    When we hear that a belief is ridiculous, the first thing we should ask ourselves is: ridiculous to whom?

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  • Grondahl Restored 36

    For other cartoons in this series, click here. This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of The Sunstone Foundation and Calvin Grondahl.

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  • 15 Psaltery & Lyre: Christine Butterworth-McDermott, “Holding Anna”

    Christine Butterworth-McDermott is an associate professor of English at Stephen F. Austin State University, where she teaches creative writing, fairy tales, and act as the poetry editor of REAL: Regarding Arts and Letters, a national literary magazine.

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    Unyielding: It’s How We Operate

    During my ex-boyfriend’s honeymoon, I sent him a dozen red roses, along with three singing telegrams, which I had delivered three days in a row. The girl paid to sing to my ex was yelled at by his new wife, who was angry at the […]

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  • A Record Keeping People

    For me, writing both requires that I feel centered within myself as well as helps me to get to that centered place. It's almost a form of meditation.

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  • Shielding Children from our Emotions

    I’ve read some really sad things lately and have been experiencing some of my own sad moments (hey, I’m 39, so it’s time, no?), so I’ve been thinking a good bit about grief lately and about what grief looks like once you’re a parent.   […]

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  • Walk to the World Trade Center Memorial Site

    Today’s installment of our Ride to Church feature that we usually run on Sundays is a Walk to the World Trade Center Memorial site, which my family visited in June of this year while spending a week in New York City.   As I’m sure […]

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  • Powerful

    Where does your head go when you want to channel some power?

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  • Guest Post Invitation: Single Experiences

    We want to hear your personal stories about why there is less than a perfect fit between your spiritual needs and what the church offers.

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  • Ride to Church in Silver Gate, Montana

    Today’s Ride to Church comes to us from Carole (who has also graciously shared her Rides to Church in Avon and Paradise, Utah and a last Ride to Church in Avon, Utah) who visited Silver Gate, Montana with her family.   Carole writes: Cooke City, […]

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  • Waiting a couple days for clarity didn't even occur to me. Nope, I simply dove in head first, trusting my feelings to guide me in the right direction.

    “Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself!”

    I learned this saying a number of years ago after I’d burned bridges with half of my family, lost a close friend, and found myself kneeling by the bed, pleading with God to understand how my obsession with fixing other people’s problems had gotten me […]

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  • Grondahl Restored 33

    For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • The Pillars of Love, Part 1: Authenticity

    To be pure, love must be authentic. This is much more than saying that love must be authentically felt. What I mean is that pure love must come from a heart that is stripped of deceit, for love cannot survive otherwise.

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  • Confronting the “Fine Tuning” Argument

    Given a pragmatic view of science, fine tuning ceases to be a problem. Scientific models are remarkable, but human, efforts at reverse-engineering the universe. We can't expect them to be indicative of objective reality.

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  • 14 Psaltery & Lyre: Christine Butterworth-McDermott, “Wedding Cake”

    Christine Butterworth-McDermott is an associate professor of English at Stephen F. Austin State University, where she teaches creative writing, fairy tales, and act as the poetry editor of REAL: Regarding Arts and Letters, a national literary magazine.

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  • Hankerin’ for a Spankerin’

    I would like to preface this story with the statement that I love both my parents deeply. In my home growing up, Mom was the disciplinarian. Dad worked graveyard shift at the post office until I was in high school, so he didn’t have a […]

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  • To Read or Not to Read (Your Teenager’s Private Business)

    When I was a teenager, I kept a journal.   I wrote in it a lot.   I sometimes worried about my parents reading it, so I hid it-in various places, to throw them off the scent.   And sometimes I would do things like […]

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  • A Whole Lot of Craziness

    It’s funny how one story can take on different meanings, reveal different themes, and speak to us in new ways depending on who we are during the time of reading. Case in point – I’ve read The Catcher in the Rye three times (conveniently in […]

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  • Grondahl Restored 32

    For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Lost and Found

    When I showed up the next week (closer to 10:10 a.m. this time), the little old lady said, "You came back." I had found my spiritual home.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Light and Shadow

    "I don't know much," I think to myself, "but I know there is truth in their steady breathing, and in their dirty laundry scattered on the floor."

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  • 13 Psaltery & Lyre: Dayna Patterson, “I Wear Pants to Church”

    For women, this isn't allowed. If I were my brother, no one would notice. I'm breaking the rules

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  • You Don’t Know How It Feels

    Instead of spinning narratives that minimize our old beliefs, make us feel superior, and make nodding rubes out of the orthodox, we should admit that we aren't -- and weren't -- special. Only after we've leveled the playing field are we in a position to empathize with anyone.

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  • Restoring America?

    Politics is like blood sport at our house.   We love it.   I have a picture of Kennedy as a newborn, sitting in one of those vibrating rocker seats, “watching” Meet the Press with us on a Sunday morning before church.   Our kids […]

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  • 39 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Please Don’t Tell Me I Don’t Understand the Gospel

    Had I simply refused to see it? Turned a blind eye out of conformity? Why, after decades in the church, did these things suddenly bother me?

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: The Feminine Divine

    She pointed to two girls and told them, then she pointed to me. "You, with the blonde, your Goddess is as clear as the blue sea on our coasts. Your Goddess is Iemanja."

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Coming Out

    The premonition was followed by two additional thoughts. I needed to come out of the closet. I needed to resign formally from the church.

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    For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • 12 Psaltery & Lyre: Ed Snow, “The Danaid”

    My fingers glide across your nape, shoulders and waist. . .

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  • College Success 101

    I teach some combination of undergraduate teacher education courses and graduate education courses.   Most of my students are college juniors, so they’ve had a couple years of experience before they get to me.   Starting next week, I’m teaching a course that our university […]

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  • Starfish Beyond Mountains

    Everyone knows the parable of the starfish. Some of us even have a framed print of the parable, maybe a shadow box with an actual dried starfish, hanging in the guest bathroom. It’s a simple tale, even a little worn with familiarity, but the moral […]

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    For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: I Don’t Know How It Ends

    Doesn't matter what you call it. What matters is that it calls you. It's been calling poets and preachers, artists and alcoholics all along. People who see things that aren't supposed to be there.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Sacred Artifacts and Rituals

    I'm a faithful skeptic, a doubting believer; this is why these spiritual experiences were so unexpected.

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  • 11 Psaltery & Lyre: Heather Olson Beal, “Quiver Full”

    Heather Olson Beal is a regular blogger at D&S. See her complete bio on the "About Us" page.

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  • Staff Stacks, Pt 1

    What the writers of D&S are into now.

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  • Savoring (or failing to savor) the Present

    On one of the nights in the last two weeks when the Olympics were on, I got up from my home office chair, left the computer, and went into the TV room where all three of our kids were blissfully watching whatever Olympic event was […]

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: An Object Lesson

    I have felt those same feelings in and around mosques, synagogues, and churches of many different Christian denominations. Let's add mountaintops and porch swings, too.

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  • What’s the Harm: Utilitarianism and the “Mormon Moment”

    Mormonism isn't going anywhere, and it's not going to stop being a conservative institution. But Brooks and other liberal Mormons aren't enabling Mormonism's reactionary side.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Mormon Soccer

    It all feels organic and authentic in a way Church no longer does. Yet something about the early morning routine, the weekly exercise and exhaustion, the socializing with people I otherwise wouldn't-it somehow feels like Mormon soccer to me.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Spirit or Ghost?

    Was it all in my head? Maybe. Was it a product of my environment? Maybe. Was it the result of a physiological condition? Maybe. But regardless of the cause, the results are the same. I am, without a doubt, a believer in spiritual experiences.

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  • Ride to Church (History Sites in Palmyra, New York)

     In June, we took a family vacation to New York.   We spent 6 days in New York City and then rented a car and drove to upstate New York.   We met my in-laws in Palmyra, where founding events of the Mormon church took […]

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    This one’s for Heather. :)For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Letting the Sea In

    This wasn't how it was supposed to be. That thought thrummed constantly below the surface, a drumbeat following me everywhere.

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  • 10 Psaltery & Lyre: Bennett Durkan, “State Colors”

    Bennett Durkan is pursuing an M.A. in English at Stephen F. Austin State University.

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  • Whole Lotta Hate

    There’s an awful lot of “hate” being thrown around on-line and in the media these days.   Mormons and evangelicals hate gays.   Chick-fil-A (the business and apparently, every employee of the company, by definition), hates gays.   A deranged gunman hated Sikhs.   Fred […]

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: The New and Everlasting Covenant

    The three of us met in a park one night and I basically gave them permission to date. It was weird, but at the same time, I felt like God was somehow preparing us to be the pioneers of polygamy IN the church at this period of time.

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  • Our Favorite Mormons: Merciful Minerva! (Teichert, That Is)

    Of all the superhero catch phrases, Wonder Woman’s frequent invocation of “Merciful Minerva!” puzzled me most as a kid since Minerva (the Roman version of Athena) represented wisdom and learning, inventiveness and the arts, hardly someone whose name and memory might embolden you to, say, […]

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Redemption from Pride

    I kept toward the back, filled with the peace that comes from doing the right thing. I carried a sign that read, "Sorry We're Late" and took in the positive response from the spectators.

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  • Ride to the Sensoji Temple

    Today’s Ride to “Church” (=Sensoji Temple) comes to us from Emily: In May of this year, I had the opportunity to take a group of five 8th grade students on a trip to our sister school in Kagoshima, Japan.   I couldn’t help but make […]

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  • An Open Letter

    You might deride liberal Mormons for their heterodoxy, but they are doing your job for you. They have translated Mormonism into a language that is intelligible to the larger public, a language that speaks to the issues the public cares about.

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    For other cartoons in this series,  click here.  This cartoon, as always, is posted with the kind permission of  The Sunstone Foundation  and  Calvin Grondahl.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: More Than Meditation

    God knows that I have some deep and abiding struggles--religious conundrums with which I have grappled for years.

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  • 9 Psaltery & Lyre: Angela Felsted, “The Cello String to God”

    Angela Felsted is a musician, poet, and nature lover. Her work has appeared in issue fifteen of Drown in Your Own Fears, in Chantarelle's Notebook, and on her blog. Her chapbooks, CLEAVE and Scarred were published in 2012. You can visit her at www.angelafelsted.com.

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  • 38 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: The Real Threat to Religious Liberty

    The problem with McBride's "Threats to Chick-fil-A are a Threat to Religious Liberty" article in Meridian Magazine is that she doesn't seem to understand what religious liberty is or why it's important.

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