patriarchy Archive

  • Gender Equality and the Mormon Church: Why Progressive Mormon Men are the Problem

    Here's the reason you're the problem: You benefit from all the perks of patriarchy, but you won't own it in a way that motivates others to change it. You want to smooth out its rough edges, polish it up a bit, so you're not embarrassed by it.

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  • Smog-Breathers

    I just read an amazing book called “Multiplication is for White People”: Raising Expectations for Other People’s Children by Lisa Delpit,an insightful writer whose work I have admired for the last ten years, which is about when I was first exposed to her.   I […]

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  • 41 Psaltery & Lyre: Angela Felsted, “Sons”

    "I believe / you put the compass in me, / you are the needle / that directs us on the / path to godhood; . . . "

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  • 39 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Please Don’t Tell Me I Don’t Understand the Gospel

    Had I simply refused to see it? Turned a blind eye out of conformity? Why, after decades in the church, did these things suddenly bother me?

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  • Unforgettable Images

    Many Mormons (adults included) don’t watch R-rated movies.   The oft-cited rationale is that once you see those images (“those images” = depictions of violence or sexuality), you’ll never get them out of your head.   They’re seared into your brain forever. I for one […]

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  • On Being Cut Out of the Program

    We had a beautiful Easter weekend that included a blissful day of cousin-ing with two out of my three siblings (we definitely missed our oldest sister and her gang!) and my parents.   Everyone got dressed up Sunday morning in new clothes for Easter-new dresses […]

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  • 14 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Uchtdorf Steps In It

    "But PLEASE, for the love of God, don't tell us that God hasn't forgotten us. We're not that small. Or stupid."

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  • I am Alpha and Omega

    A Man of Letters

    Everything I have learned about God is written in a book. In fact, it's difficult to imagine how my worldview might differ had certain ideas not been memorialized, glorified, and canonized in the form of holy books ...

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