expectations Archive

  • On Parental Hope and Heartbreak

    I’ve read two things recently that bothered me-perhaps especially as the wife of Mr. Cheap Seats. Exhibit A:   An article in the Deseret News titled “When children have chosen another way,” which begins with this: “Perhaps the greatest heartbreak I have seen in my […]

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  • Mind the Gap

    I recently re-read Carol Lynn Pearson’s amazing No More Goodbyes: Circling the Wagons around Our Gay Loved Ones for the second time because a woman in my very-Mormon book club picked it for us to read.   For me, it was at least as inspiring […]

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  • I am thankful for . . .

    In the first couple of days of November, I had the brilliant idea to go to the teacher supply store and get a big piece of bulletin board paper so we could make a Gratitude Wall for the month. (This was before I’d read Mel’s […]

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  • Papa, Watch me Fly!

    On Sunday nights, we gather all the piles of clean laundry into the living room and fold it while watching a movie. The kids were not amused by my choice last Sunday: “Yentl” (now stream-able on Netflix!). They don’t like to watch “old” movies and […]

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