Guest Bloggers Archive

  • The Won’t To Believe

    I could do it. I could choose to believe.

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  • Parenthood Juggle: It Takes a Village. . .

    Perhaps it was my cheerless state of mind that caused the tone of quiet desperation in The Feminine Mystique to stick with me

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  • On Being a Christmasist

    In the three years since I lost faith in Mormonism, I’ve tried on more than a few labels to describe my spiritual alignment: agnostic, atheist, humanist. I’m not content with any of them. It’s not that they are wrong, necessarily, but each fails to capture […]

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  • Mormonism is a Skirt, Not a Pair of Pants!

    Skirtism doesn't imply that there exists no universal Mormonism -- for all we know, One True Mormonism is floating out there in the noumenal -- it only requires us to admit that we don't possess it, no matter where we got our beliefs.

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  • I’ve Let Go . . .

    It's not that I'm immature or captive to black-and-white thinking. I see the complexity; I see the nuance. But I do not find it compelling.

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  • Leaving The Paved Road

    I have a seemingly insignificant memory from my early teenage years of walking through the grocery store and spying the front cover of TEEN magazine with Lindsay Lohan on the front cover.   I remember the feeling of inferiority that followed and the inner monologue […]

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  • Richard Dawkins, you’re an ass. Brandon Flowers, you don’t know what the hell you’re talking about.

    When we hear that a belief is ridiculous, the first thing we should ask ourselves is: ridiculous to whom?

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  • A Record Keeping People

    For me, writing both requires that I feel centered within myself as well as helps me to get to that centered place. It's almost a form of meditation.

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  • Waiting a couple days for clarity didn't even occur to me. Nope, I simply dove in head first, trusting my feelings to guide me in the right direction.

    “Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself!”

    I learned this saying a number of years ago after I’d burned bridges with half of my family, lost a close friend, and found myself kneeling by the bed, pleading with God to understand how my obsession with fixing other people’s problems had gotten me […]

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  • Confronting the “Fine Tuning” Argument

    Given a pragmatic view of science, fine tuning ceases to be a problem. Scientific models are remarkable, but human, efforts at reverse-engineering the universe. We can't expect them to be indicative of objective reality.

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  • Hankerin’ for a Spankerin’

    I would like to preface this story with the statement that I love both my parents deeply. In my home growing up, Mom was the disciplinarian. Dad worked graveyard shift at the post office until I was in high school, so he didn’t have a […]

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  • You Don’t Know How It Feels

    Instead of spinning narratives that minimize our old beliefs, make us feel superior, and make nodding rubes out of the orthodox, we should admit that we aren't -- and weren't -- special. Only after we've leveled the playing field are we in a position to empathize with anyone.

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  • 39 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Please Don’t Tell Me I Don’t Understand the Gospel

    Had I simply refused to see it? Turned a blind eye out of conformity? Why, after decades in the church, did these things suddenly bother me?

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  • What’s the Harm: Utilitarianism and the “Mormon Moment”

    Mormonism isn't going anywhere, and it's not going to stop being a conservative institution. But Brooks and other liberal Mormons aren't enabling Mormonism's reactionary side.

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  • An Open Letter

    You might deride liberal Mormons for their heterodoxy, but they are doing your job for you. They have translated Mormonism into a language that is intelligible to the larger public, a language that speaks to the issues the public cares about.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: What If?

    Now I was laughing, giddy with freedom. "I don't know if You're there! I don't know what any of this means!" The more I said it, the more it filled me, that burning in the bosom, that unbridled peace.

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  • The Trek West: Creating the Kingdom Together

    We are a heritage of seekers. Since Mormonism is relatively new, all of us have pioneer ancestors close enough to know about. Maybe they crossed the plains. Maybe they converted much later. Maybe YOU are a pioneer.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Letting Go

    I realized that I'd always had it backwards. Spirituality didn't come from holding the power of God inside your body like a form of light. It didn't come from knowing all the answers, from soothing other people's pain or from living a perfect life.

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  • Unexpected Spiritual Experiences: Afraid to Pray?

    I only know that I wasn't strong enough to let the lamplight keep glowing, tiny as it was. I snuffed it out.

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  • Teaching Sex: On Reframing Negative Assumptions

    It's time to get rid of the "sin next to murder" rhetoric: a closer reading of the text in Alma suggests that Corianton's real sin is religious hypocrisy, not simply sleeping around.

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  • 33 A Mormon in the Cheap Seats: Loving Those Who Choose the Other Road

    The real test of love is not if we can love and appreciate people who agree with us. . .but if we can honor and respect people who don't.

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  • Sunday Takes a Mallet to My Head

    Usually a very confident person, I avoided their eyes, smiled at their foreheads, and slunk behind the piano. The chorister introduced two visitors and announced that we would be singing a welcome song. I didn't hear her, as my thoughts were too focused on my failure. "Sister," she said sweetly, "we're singing a Welcome Song."

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  • Reconsider Reading The Book of Mormon to Your Kids

    Today’s guest post, written by Angela, is based on “Consider Skipping Hunger Games” by James T. Summerhays. ; As a book of scripture, The Book of Mormon poses some important and persuasive theories concerning the effects of wickedness, secrecy, and greed on any civilization and […]

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  • The Sacredness of Manhood

    Today’s guest post comes to us from Angela Felsted, who is a musician, poet, and nature lover. Her work has appeared in issue fifteen of Drown in Your Own Fears, in Chantarelle’s Notebook, and in Vine Leaves Literary Journal. You can find more of her […]

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  • Christmas Music Hangover

    Today, a special Christmas guest post from Colin. They say that the first step in recovery is admitting that you have a problem, so here goes: Hi, my name is Colin and I have a holiday music hangover. There are a lot of Christmas songs […]

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  • Pursuing Youth and Beauty: Why You Should Never Stop

    Today’s guest post comes to us from Bella Swan. A few short years after my husband, Edward, turned me into a vampire, I was asked to come up with a fundraiser and present it in a PTA meeting at Renesmee’s school, where everyone seemed obsessed […]

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  • The Santos Family Guide to Complete Family Interestingness

    Today’s post comes to us from Colin S., who writes: Disclaimer: I am fixing to brag on my kids. It will be tasteful and concise. On December 3, 2004 my fantastically pregnant wife and I checked into one of our fine local hospitals for what […]

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  • Mormon Mommy Meets Eat, Pray, Love

    In the spirit of wayfaring, Ashley joins us today with the kind of travelogue I’d love to hear in testimony meeting.  I’m the one with my mouth open wide and feet sitting in a pool of flesh-sucking fish, what Southeast Asians term a “fish spa.” […]

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