Awakenings

I reread Leo Tolstoy’s masterpiece Anna Karenina a little over a month ago.  The novel is a marvel; Tolstoy imbues even minor characters with complex motivations, thoughts and feelings. He gives each of them moments of dignity and compassion while being clear-eyed about their failings. The world he creates is incredibly complete and covers every aspect of Russian life for the class of people he writes about.  Despite my enjoyment the second time around, in the weeks that have passed, I’ve been haunted by Anna — I can’t get her out of my head.

Almost every man and woman who encounters Anna falls a little in love with her. She is not simply a great beauty, but a woman whose energy and charisma leap off the page; she is witty, smart, passionate and generous, but she is also terribly frustrating. Even as a reader who delights in complex characters, I found myself wanting to put Anna in the ‘good’ category: perhaps a vestige of a dualistic worldview where I can’t help making a hero of such a compelling character. However, Tolstoy gives simplistic notions of character no quarter and I found myself continuing to love Anna while I was simultaneously disappointed by her  behavior —    leaving her son, her indifference to her daughter,  and her love for Count Vronsky, who never seems quite her equal.

I wasn’t disappointed by Anna’s decisions because I thought they were ‘bad’, Tolstoy is careful to create a great deal of sympathy and understanding for Anna and her choices; more than anything I felt frustrated because Anna is not just smart, but seems so self-aware.  She sees herself being irrational, immoral, picking a fight, being noble, coquettish or genuine — she sees it all so clearly that it is hard to watch her make choices that seem the exact opposite of what she wants (and, admittedly, hard to shake the knowledge that Anna might have been given a different fate as a man).  As the  novel goes on, Anna develops a strange habit of “narrowing her eyes as if peering at something in the distance” which another character suspects she does “in order not to see (her life) at all.” She becomes increasingly fragmented, divided from herself and what she wants; yet, she is aware, long before Vronsky, of her status in society, his waning affection and that she will not be able to live without her son.    Even as she hurtles towards her death, the reader is given an astonishing glimpse into her head, which shows, despite her narrowed eyes, that  her sense of humor and unique clarity is still intact. It makes her suicide even more devastating and unsettling.

When I first read Anna Karenina, around the time I was 17, I believed that Anna was simply mired in her ‘natural man’ and could have avoided death and ruin if only she could have risen above her sins: left Vronsky and found a way to continue being a good mother. She would be ruined, but pure. Now, I have great compassion for her predicament. I see how damaging it was to her soul to be divided, so limited in her choices and roles.

Anna’s spiritual crisis is paralleled by Konstantin Dmitrich Levin’s, the novel’s other protagonist. Throughout the novel, Levin struggles with questions of goodness, duty, religion, materialism and the existence of God. As Anna moves towards a more compartmentalized, damaged life, Levin moves towards wholeness; he learns to love and finds happiness, despite his great fear of death. This move towards wholeness culminates in a spiritual moment where Levin realizes that he believes in God. After being touched by the divine, Levin goes home, believing that he has been saved and his whole life will be different, only to find that he is still easily annoyed, flawed: still himself.  In the final paragraphs, Levin has his true epiphany:

“This new feeling hasn’t changed me, hasn’t made me happy or suddenly enlightened, as I dreamed — just like the feeling for my son. Nor was there any surprise. And faith or not faith — I don’t know what it is — but this feeling has entered into me just as imperceptibly through suffering and lodged itself in my soul. I’ll get angry in the same way with the coachman Ivan, argue in the same way, speak my mind inappropriately, there will be the same wall between my soul’s holy of holies and other people, even my wife, I’ll accuse her in the same way of my own fear and then regret it, I’ll fail in the same way to understand with my reason why I pray, and yet I will pray — but my life now, my whole life, regardless of all that may happen to me, every minute of it, is not only not meaningless, as it was before, but has the unquestionable meaning of the good which it is in my power to put into it!”

Psychologist and meditation teacher Jack Kornfield wrote, “True spirituality is not a defense against the uncertainties, pain and danger in life, not an ‘an inoculation,’ as Joseph Campbell called popular religion, to avoid the unknown. It is an opening to the entire mysterious process of life.” Kornfield goes on:

“We fragment our life and divide ourselves from it when we hold to ideals of perfection … The purity that we long for is not found in perfecting the world. True purity is found in the heart that can touch all things, enfold all things, and include all things in its compassion. The greatness of our love grows not by what we know, not be what we have become, not by what we have fixed in ourselves, but in our capacity to love and be free in the midst of all life.”

In that moment, Levin moves towards this kind of love and wholeness, a life that integrates his conscience with his spiritual epiphanies and the realities of daily living, a work I believe we all share. As I’ve thought about Mel this week and questions of loyalty, dissension and individual conscience, I have been left with this feeling that we cannot fragment ourselves or compartmentalize our conscience from our spiritual practices, they are all part of a whole. Like Anna, like Levin, we will be deeply flawed, imperfect: but we can be awake.